Dear Haya,
I am an undergraduate student struggling to focus on my studies with remote work. I try to manage my own expenses, including the fee for my university, so work is not an option. While studying, I try to keep focusing on, but recently I didn’t manage to plan a limit on my work. Sometimes it becomes very difficult to say not because they are often urgent tasks that I cannot refuse to consider.
Lately, I have noticed that this state of work above the studies has gone out of hands and I am afraid to go back to my grades. I am also afraid to lose this job because I have done it for a while and find a new one will take centuries. I am extremely worried because I do not know how to handle this situation. Please help!
– A struggling student

Dear Student,
The management of studies and work at the same time are not a small feat. Balancing academic pressure with the financial responsibility of supporting yourself is incredibly demanding and I want to recognize the durability and commitment you show only by displaying every day.
It sounds shocked – and this is quite natural. Your concern about things that get out of hand is valid. Remote jobs can blur the boundaries without structure, it may feel like you are always working.
From what you have shared, it sounds like carrying multiple layers of emotional pressure:
- The fear of returning to your grades.
- The fear of losing your job.
- The comfort that your job brings because they are intimate and stable.
- And the spiritual burden of knowledge that you can’t afford to choose only one above the other right now.
Therefore, we must consider each of these aspects one by one – recognizing them and creating a plan to facilitate your crush.
Let’s take a breath and explore some strategies to help you recover your base.
First things first. Discover why.
Why are you doing what you do? What is your long -term repayment?
From what you have shared, it sounds like your studies are linked to your greatest goals-and your job, while necessary, is a short-term pillow that helps you get there. When all feels emergency, it is easy for long -term priorities (such as study) being sidelined by short -term requirements (such as work work). Taking this, no one can throw from an empty cup. When your academic focus begins to suffer, it is a sign that the current system needs some adjustment – not because you fail, but because you are human.
Below, there are some practical strategies to explore and apply:
1. Set up ‘office hours’ for work
Although your work is remote, treat it as an on -the -spot role. Exclose specific times in your day that is only for work and contact them clearly to your employer. This helps you build a limit without saying “no” to everything – just “not now”.
2. Structure of your week visually and deliberately
Use a diary or developer to map your week in advance. Color-rugged self-shade for study, one for work and one for the rest or personal time. About a clear block for each activity and make sure to leave the time buffer (a few hours) between the study and the work. This visual structure can reduce mental clutter, help you stay focused and facilitate detection when you are overly committed or you need to adjust your limits.
2. Talk to your employer
Since many of the work duties feel urgent, could you gently talk to your manager about setting clearer expectations during your academic hours? Most rational employers appreciate honesty when combined with accountability. Let them know that you balance the studies at the same time and how it is currently affecting you so you can reach a middle ground.
3. Create a Sort Plan for Working Holidays
When the work occurs during study hours, ask:
- Is this really urgent, or just sensitive to time?
- Can I respond briefly now and follow later?
You don’t always have to say no. A simple, “I’ll get to it after 4pm when I get back to my office” goes a lot.
4. Start a mild backup plan
If the fear of losing your job weighs on you, start exploring part-time roles that are more flexible-even if you do not apply immediately. Sometimes just knowing that you have options brings huge relief.
5. Be kind to yourself
This is a difficult time – but it will not last forever. The skills you are now building – durability, time management and emotional intelligence – will serve you for the coming years. Pause every so often, breathe and honor how far you have come.
Try this and see how it goes. Good luck!
– Haya

Haya Malik is a psychotherapist, neuro-linguistic planning practitioner (NLP), a corporate well-being strategy and a trainer with know-how on the creation of organizational cultures that focus on prosperity and awareness of mental health.
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