Ethan Slater’s ex-wife Lilly Jay finally breaks silence on their divorce

Ethan Slater’s ex-wife Lily Jay has broken her silence on their divorce.

In an emotional essay on the cut, Jay wrote about the challenges he faced after his divorce from Slater and his current relationship with Ariana Grande.

Jay, who shares her 2-year-old son with ex-husband Slater, wrote: “Motherhood, I’ve learned, fills your time but not your mind.”

“In the countless hours I spend rocking my son to sleep, pushing his stroller, admiring his sweaty little hands grasping a crayon, I diligently work on my private task of coming to terms with the sudden public collapse of my marriage. This, I tell myself. it’s nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to hide,” he added.

Jay went on to write, “slowly but surely, I’ve come to believe that in the absence of the life I planned with my high school sweetheart, a life of sweetness awaits me and my child.”

While he didn’t mention Grande by name, Jay wrote elsewhere in the essay, “Nobody gets married thinking they’re going to break up, the same way we don’t get on a plane expecting it to crash. But I really never thought I’d get divorced especially not after the birth of my first child and especially not in the shadow of my husband’s new relationship with a celebrity.”

Jay, who is a clinical psychologist, added: “In this time of shock and grief, over a year after the end of my marriage went public, I deeply miss the life of invisibility I created for myself as a psychologist majoring in the psychology of women. health.”

Slater started coming out with his own Bad costar Grande after splitting with Jay earlier this year, which was also after the Thanks, Next the singer’s split from ex-husband Dalton Gomez;

However, Slater and Jay finalized their divorce in September this year, 12 years after they started dating.