Adnan Siddiqui thinks women are like flies

Adnan Siddiqui found himself at the center of controversy after he made a strange comment during an appearance on Nida Yasir’s popular morning show Shan e Suhoor. The remark not only left the host visibly uncomfortable, but also drew criticism from viewers and social media users.

A fly buzzed around him, and Nida suggested that perhaps she was attracted to Adnan’s sweetness. He dismissed the idea and replied, “I’ll say something. Ladies, don’t feel bad about it.” Nida, perhaps sensing danger, interjected, “God help us, it’s Ramadan.”

Undaunted, Adnan continued. “A fly and a woman are examples of the same,” he said. At this, Nida grabbed her head and remarked exasperatedly, “It’s going to make me go viral again.” Adnan continued, “The more you run after women, the more they run away from you. And when you sit like that (folds his hand on his chest), they will come and sit on your hand like that fly did.” In an attempt to shake off what he said, Nida replied, “I don’t want to ask him about how he sits.”

Adnan continued: “When I tried to catch the fly, it wouldn’t reach my hands. [sat back]came and sat here.” At this point, it became apparent that the host wanted to change the subject of the conversation. “I don’t want such ordinary people on my live show,” Nida replied with a forced laugh. Let’s move on to the next one.”

While the comment was delivered in jest by Adnan, who is known to be humorous and tends to cause trouble with his rants, one can’t blame the women if they are, in fact, offended by the statement. Women are often robbed of their agency when they are compared to various inanimate things. For example, women’s bodies are often policed ​​by comparing them to lock boxes or lollipops, implying that women should remain ‘locked’ and ‘safe’, which often leads to a culture of victim blaming in cases of assault or demonisation. in cases of assertion of free will.

Although Adnan did not make his comment in the same vein, comparing women to flies is undoubtedly disrespectful. Moreover, his intention behind the comparison also came from a clichéd and outdated way of thinking that is completely unbecoming of any respectable person, let alone a respectable star. Not only did Adnan disrespect the vast majority of his devoted fans, he did so while claiming that women shouldn’t be chased but should just be left alone, putting the onus of the chase on them and encouraging tiresome mind games. The comment was unprovoked, which makes it even more absurd. One really wonders what made the actor make such a hollow and unnecessary statement.

Adnan’s remark also comes at a time when discussions around gender equality and respect for women’s rights are becoming more prominent in Pakistani society. His comments not only undermine these important discussions, but also highlight the prevalence of casual misogynistic attitudes that continue to persist in certain sections of society.

As the controversy unfolds, it remains to be seen if Adnan will face the backlash and apologize for his comments. In the meantime, the incident serves as a reminder of the importance of promoting gender sensitivity and respectful dialogue in all areas of public discourse.

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